What A Guys Got To Do to Get A Girl And Talk to A Girl

When You Are Afraid To Talk To Girls Here Is What You Can Do To Get A Girl

9 Tips on How to Get A Girl-How to Talk To A Girl From Dating Portland Oregon.com – You will know exactly what to say to her.

For a nine-year-old, Alec Grevin really has the best advice – Timeless Tips that should be required reading for singles:

How to Talk to Girls

Talking to A Girl Conversation Starter Tips:

1 - Walk up to her naturally.  If you have a tendency to camouflage your face with a goofy look, or approach her awkwardly, without any self confidence, she will see it in your body language.  You only have three (3) seconds to make a first impression – Don't waste it by acting self conscious, desperate, needy or insecure.  Practice in the mirror as if you were giving a speech if you need to – This really works!

2 - Have a couple really good things to say to her versus a pick-up line.  Sincerity really impresses in a classy way.  For ideas, think about what you would like to hear if you were the one being approached.  Things like, "Hi, my name is ______________.  I suppose you already know your name!"  Will make a girl laugh and laughter is a great ice breaker.  Be interested in what she has to say.  Watch and listen to her for clues about what to talk about.


3 - Try a compliment.  A pick-up line will only sabotage your good intentions.  If you can, use compliments that don't focus on a woman's looks – Not her body.  Try complimenting her on her style, her jewelry, or something she is doing – her technique with whatever it is she is doing – avoiding eye contact with strangers, for instance, her athletic ability, . . .  When you are thinking about confidence be the Alpha male for that moment and exude that kind of charisma that excites and intrigues.

4 - An event that you both see at the same time makes for great conversation openers.  For instance did a waiter drop something, the people next to you have cell phones that ring at the same time, anything like that – you both look at the same thing at the same instant – Ask her if she knows what the probability of THAT happening is – Tell her you don't know either.

5 - Don't spend so much time focusing on what to say that you lose your opportunity or talk yourself out of it – Spontaneous is often best.  Stupid lines are worst.  Do take the time you need to process and organize your thoughts, but don't miss your chance.

6 - Wait to call, but do call (if you get a phone number) within a two day span.

7 - Do not use intimidation or insults to get a woman's attention.  All you'll get is a dirty look and a permanent seat designation on her "Jack-Ass," list.  Primarily you want to appear as a socially responsible guy with manners who has several choices for women.  Keep that alpha male in mind.  A woman who perceives weakness, neediness or desperation on your part will not be interested in you.  That doesn't mean you have to go out and get a tattoo and call yourself, "Buster."  It just means to show a woman respect shows confidence and respect for yourself and that is SEXY.  Remember your manners.  Manners will take you further than any technique.  Be genuine.

8 - Shy guys are boring.  If you are shy have a few things to say (planned ahead of time) that will help you open up – avoid an interview monotone.  Short dates are better than long dinner/movie/conversation dates.  Less of you in the beginning will keep her interest sparked versus long boring gaps in conversations.  Go away so that she has a chance to miss you.  Go on double dates to help you break out of your shell.  Do things that require interaction or activity – For example a batting cage date, sporting event dates.  Tell stories about yourself and/or your experiences and family/friends/job to keep her interested – answer her questions, give longer than one word answers.  If she is kidding with you, kid her back to keep the chemistry  ratio higher.  Be comfortable if she tries to touch you, don't stiffen up, unless it is in violation of your private and personal space and offensive.  Playful touching works great but let her touch you first.

9 - LOOK UP

"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option."
 ~ Mark Twain

There is no better time to practice than NOW.  Keep these tips in mind when you want to get a girl and don't know how to talk to a girl.