Well, we have all seen that myth - that "nice guys" do not make it and the 'bad boys" appeal to women - but I don't think it is necessarily true. At least I don't believe it has anything to do with being a bad boy vs a nice guy.
I believe there are other personality factors involved that possibly bad boys and nice guys have that are the defining qualities of attraction.
Bad boys tend to be less shy, but at the same time they are more confident in general than nice guys. I believe that it would be these personalities that are attracting a woman not the aspect that a guy is bad.
I personally almost never use the "bad boy" technique when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. However, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that immediately when talking to me. I am a little unapproachable, I don't compliment women when I initially meet them or tell them how attractive they are, and most women don't have a clue as to whether I am fascinated with them or just being good.
That is what sets me beyond a "nice guy". Women see me as a perfect gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - like that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who praise them.
Girls like guys who are alluring and unique. Attractive girls don't find guys who tell them how beautiful they are to be special. But a guy who has an enjoyable conversation with them without stating a word about their beauty verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also keep in mind that women have different characters. And what one thinks is interesting and unique differs from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking lady may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how pretty she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a community of perfect gentlemen, might very well see a guy who talks a little bad and naughty to be interesting and unique. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be a rare interesting and unique find.
You see regardless of what you are like there is a person for you. But you have to identify who that someone would be and then try to maximize how you would meet persons like that. So regardless of if you are a bad boy or a nice guy, put yourself in a position where you are interesting and unique to the women you meet and you will be victorious.
One of the most difficult things to learn in life is that irrespective of what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly suitable to you. Even if you are dull there are women who are completely compatible with that. Not every one wants to meet and hook up with the life of the party.
The problem is people who don't accept themselves for who they are, try and act differently and they are not being themselves, so they don't entice anyone. Now if you just accept yourself for who you are and act the way you actually are, you will realize that there are people who will embrace you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are boring or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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