7 Needs of Men&Women

What Are The Top Seven Needs of Men & Women in A Relationship

Dating Portland Oregon Found Out For You. Everything begins with knowing what you want. Before you can have anything in life-including a fulfilling relationship-you have to know exactly what you want.

Confidence is the key. If confidence gives you the skills to find the right relationship, it also gives you the strength to be able to walk away from the wrong relationship.

People spend years in relationships with the wrong people, someone that never will fulfill their needs, someone who can't give them contentment-and they've done it out of the fear that they won't find anyone else.

If you have skills and confidence, you can find a new relationship at any time you want.

The top factor making people successful and allowing them to achieve is not there capability . . . but their state of mind.

WHAT A WOMAN NEEDS IN A RELATIONSHIP…

Security (emotional)-To feel beautiful, secure in her partners fidelity, secure that her partner will not try to escape when she has a down day.
To feel that she is number one in her partner's life-Make her the number one priority in your life, but do not eliminate your outside interests on her behalf. Everyone needs some time alone or with other friends occasionally.
Attention (focus on her)-At some point during your time together focus only on her, even if it is only for a short time span each day.
To feel cherished-Nurture her, honor her, and feel proud to be with her because that will show in your actions, your comments and your body language.
To be listened to-She wants empathy, but unless she asks for a solution, she really doesn't want you to step in and offer a solution.
Affection and romance-For a woman affection is a necessary prerequisite to sex.
For her partner to totally embrace her goals-If it is her goal, and it does not compromise your well-being, embrace it.

WHAT A MAN NEEDS IN A RELATIONSHIP. . .

To feel adequate just as he is-Accept him just as he is without trying to control or change him.
To feel he's in charge-Making his own decisions and not having them made for him by you. Remember the old saying, "He chased her till she caught him."
To be admired and respected-To feel looked up to, respected, and that his partner is proud of him (feels lucky to be with him).
To have his partner as his confidant-To feel he can trust his partner to listen to him and give feedback to him.
Companionship-Someone who can have fun with him, a play mate (not the kind with furry ears, either).
To feel appreciated-For what he does for his partner as much as for what he does for work.
To feel sexually fulfilled-As much as he needs to experience his own pleasure, a man also needs to feel he is satisfying his partner and giving that person pleasure.

Everything begins with knowing what you want. It is important that you be completely clear and completely specific about what it is you need from your partner. Dating Portland Oregon Wishes you every happiness in your journey.